sath jaruri hai

zindagi kabhi rukti nahi,
umedein kabhi tutti nahi,
or sapne kabhi therte nahi,
ho agar kuch karne ka jazba
to humko koi todh sakta nahi...

hmm hainji ye sach hai bus kuch karne ka zajba hi kafi hai sapno ki uchaiyo tak pauchne ke liye.jo hum karte hai usse apne mukam tak le jana namumkin nahi hai hain par aasan bhi nahi hai.isko pane ke liye zindagi bahut raste dikhaygi aache,buure,kathin or asan raste sab tarah ke bus faisla hamare hai ki kis raah ko pakad ke hume chalna hai.

humko lagta hai ki in sab rasto pe chalne ke liye khud pe vishwas hona chahiye hain vo toh hona hi chahiye par uske sath sath mei ek aise insan ka sath bhi jaruri hota hai jo humko kabhi na rukne ki umeed deta hai, sapno ko na tuttne ka jazba deta hai haar choti choti kamyabi ki khushi zahir karta hai or haar nakamyabi ke biech mei khada hokar hamara josh badhata hai.vo ek insan hamare liye us sapne se bhi kai zayda jaruri hai hena.kabhi hum tut ke gir jaate hai soch mei kami aane lagti hai irada dagmgane lagta hai toh bus ussi insan se ki gayi chand baatein hume fir se khada kar deti hai har chunauti ka samna karne ke liye.sirf chand baatein aisa kya hota hai in baaton mei jisse itni himmat mil jati hai (strange na). is lamhee mei hum us insan ke sath hote hai jisse hum sabse zayda pyar karte hai or yahi pyar agar sacha ho toh jis pyar ko hum apne sapno ki udano mei kahi kho dete hai toh aisa lagta hai jaise hum ab akele ho gaye hai or yahi soch hume kahi na kahin tod deti hai or par vahi insan bahut khubsurti se hamare dil mei dastak deta hai hume apni pyar ke jadu se vo sab kuch vapis de jata hai jo hume jaruri hota hai


(ek din mei bahut udas tha din - b - din apni kamyabi ka swad chakhte chakhte mere bhi sapno ki udan tutne lagi thi fir tabhi meri zindagi mei bhi ussi insan ne dastak di toh meine apni udasi ka sath dete hui usse pucha ki
"aap mere sath apni puri zindagi kyu bitana chahte ho
jabki mere pass kuch bhi nahi hai na paisa na apna ghar
na apko sari khushiya dene ki himaat aap mujh jaise insan ke sath rehna chahte ho kyu?"

"toh unhone hass ke jawab diya ki
apke pass sath hai mujhe dene ke liye jiske aage apki sari na kamyabiyo ka koi mool nahi hai or mei janti hu mei jis insan ke sath apni zindagi bantne vali hu vo aane vale samay mei duniya ka sabse kamyab insan hone vala hai jiski khabar mujhe abhi se hai")

ye chand lafz sunte hi mere iraade fir se buland ho gaye mere sapno ki daud chalne lagi sirf us insan ki khatir uske in chand lafzo ne mere andar kabhi na tutne ki himmat bhar di.

or hum aksar aise insan ko pechane mei galti kar dete hai.uski kimmat nahi samjh pate bus zamane ke sath bhagna hai ye soch ke thode samay ke jo hamare sath chale usse apna liya jo piche chut gaya usse chod diya bus yahi galti karte hai hum par humein apni zindagi mei us insan ki ehmiyat samjhni chahiye jab hum tut rahe hote hai toh yahi insan hamare liye ek nayi umeed baankar aata hai aise insan kabhi maat jane do kabhi nahi :)

SHITIJ KE LAFZO MEI PYAR VAHI SACHA HOTA HAI JO HIMMAT DETA HAI HAMARE OR HAMARI NA KAMYABI KE BIECH MEI KHADA REHTA HAI HAMARE SAPNO KI UDAN KO UNCHA KARTA HAI AISE INSAN KA SATH KABHI MAAT CHODNA JISKI HAMARI ZINDAGI MEI ITNI EHMIYAT HAI.

Thank You
take care

fir milenge :)

SIKHNE KI BAAT HAI

aaj 14 september 2010 date hai aaj mera interview tha mujhe english bhasha nahi aati fir bhi mei aise jagah interview dene gaya jahan english ki bahut jarurat hai mei ye soch ke nahi gaya tha ki mei is naukri ko hasil kar ke hi lautunga balki mei ye soch ke gaya tha ki jahan mei ja raha hu vaha ek aise insan ko mauka dene ke liye socha jayega jo sikhna chahta hai vo sab jisme vo thoda ashikshit hai (matlab knowladge thodi kaam hona).mera interview bilkul aacha nahi hua or na mei select hua kher ye toh thi meri baat aaj
meri zindagi ka ek or din nikal gaya
ek naukri pane ka sapna fir se bhikar gaya
kal fir nayi subah aayegi
meri umeed fir se jaag jayegi
ek naya sapna apne andar jaga ke
mei fir se uth ke chalunga
apni himmat bada ke
josh, hosh, or umeed ke sath
meri zindagi ka ek or din nikal gaya aaj...!

aaj bhi meine bahut baatein sikhi or inko mei apne andar jarur paida karunga. har interview lene vala hamehsa interview hi nahi leta ye mujhe aaj samjh mei aaya balki vo kabhi kabhi ye soch ke baithta hai ki mei naukri ussi ko dunga jo mere se aacha hoga or ye cheez kisi insan mei dhundne ke liye vo log na jane kis had tak chale jate hai ki samne vale ka attmvishwas or sahas tutte der nahi lagti.bachpan ki kahani mei kaboope jab sikhari ne jaal dala tha toh chucho ki maddat se kabootro ne kamyabi hasil ki thi.agar uss samay chuche bhi agar kabooro ki maddat karne ki bajaye agar vo bhi unse ye kehte ki pehle udne or bachne ki bhuk jagao apne andar fir hum kuch karenge toh jahir si baat hai chuho ka vaha kya kaam hena or yahi toh hota hai aajkal interview mei. bina kisi ko mauka diye kisi ki kabiliyt jaan lena koi samjhdari nahi hai haar insan mei cheeo ko samjhne ki kabiliyat hoti hai usko sikhne ki shamta hoti hai or ye agar hum ye soch ke interview dene jaye ki hum naukri lene ke liye interview dene ja rahe hai naki vo hume naukri dene ke liye interview le rahe hai. in dono baaton mei bahut antr hai bus samjhne ki jrurat hai.

ek insan ki capabilities or uska focus haar kaam ko kamyabi tak pauchane ke liye kafi hota hai. haar mei apna apna hunaar hai bus farak hamari nazar ka hai ki hum us kaam ko kaise dekhte hai. or dusro ki yahi nazar hume todne ke liye kafi hoti hai. haar jagah pe hunaar hai bus logo ne farak paida kar diya hai aaj jaise

koi farak nahi hai insaniyat mei or heevaniyat mei,
patri ke us bhikari mei or kurci ke us karamchari mei,
ameer ki kismat mei or garib ki badnasibi mei,
bache ke rone mei or sarabi ke chilane mei,
maa baap ki pyar mei or unki fatkaar mei,
vo niyat hi hai jo is farak ki jadd hai,
insan ki niyat ko heevaniyt banane mei...!!!

bilkul logo ki soch itni unchi ho gayi hai ya yu kahi ki badal gayi hai ki farak kisi cheez mei nahi hai bus farak hai dekhne vale ki nazaro mei. jisne farak paida kar diye hai or kahin na kahin isi farak ki vajah se hum apne sapno ki daudh mei batak se jate hai.meine hamehsa se suna hai ki sikhne ki na koi umaar hoti hai na hi uske liye kisi cheez ka hona jaruri hai bus apne andar vo jazbaa hona chahiye. par aaj agar sikhna hai toh uske liye vo sab hona chahiye jo humse pucha jaye or ab duniya mei sikhne ke liye bhi aunde tayar kar diye gaye hai. sikhane ke liye bhi bahut si sidiya chadni padhti hai agar humme ye sab kuch hai toh hi hume sikhaya jayega varna nahi.hahahahaha :)
sahi mei na paisa kamana hai toh sikhane ke liye paise lo kyuki sikhne valon ki kami thodi hi hai duniya mei.

par hum haar cheez se sikhte hai ya yu kahe toh sikh sakte hai agar bachapan mei hamare maa baap ne kaha hota pehle thoda chalna sikho fir hum tumhe chalna sikhayenge toh kya farak reh jata un mei or aaj ke naukri pesha logo mei kuch nahi. sikhne vala toh us bhikari se bhi bahut kuch sikh leta hai jo mehez majburi ki 2 line bol ke logo ki jeeb se 1 rupeya niklva leta hai ye bhi us bhikari ki kabiliyat hi hai na bhagwan ne kuch soch ke banaya hoga usse. sikhne ke liye vajah ki kami nahi hai kami hai toh hamari soch mei hamari nazariye mei or hamari sikhne ki bhook mei jo aajkal ki duniya mei milni mushkil hai or jisme hoti hai usse kayam rakhna matlab kolyon ke dheer pe nagne pair chalna.

SHITIJ KE LAFZO MEI SIRF BHOOK KI KAMI HAI KISI BHI CHEEZ KO SIKHNE KI BUS ITNI BHOOK JAGA LO KI VO HAMARI US BHOOK MEI HAMARI KABILIYAT KO DHUNDNE MEI MAAJBUR HO JAYE. YAHI HAI MERI AAJ KI SIKH JISKO AAP BHI LO SIKH HEHEHE..

TAKE CARE
KEEP LEARNING
GOD BLESS U
FIR MILENGE CHALTE CHALTE...!!!

helloo welcome back ooofffff wat a tough life, its realy very hard to find a job in dez days seriously. ktina mushkil hai na apni umeed banaye rakhna apni umeed se zayda apne parents ki umeed ko banaye rakhna.roz raat ko sone se pehle hum ye kaam se kaam 50 times god se kehte honge ki plzz god ye job dila do and piche se dad ye kehte rehte hai ki bus se chale jana jaldi pauch jayega and kaam se kaam ye interview to clear kar ke aana nahi to maat aana or kab hamare dad ki baatein gusse mei badal jaye ye to sirf god knows hena and fir raat ko jab job ki tension dimag mei hoti hai kisi se baat karne ka mann nahi hota or jis tym hume thode se confidence ki jrurt hoti h us tym hamari life ke sabse pyar insan ka call aata h and hum usse baat karte hai vo koi bhi ho sakta h(brother, sister, girl friend, boy friend or just a bst frnd) vo bahut sweetly hamara confidence badane ki koshish karte hai infact kabhi kabhi to vo ek pyare se bachpne ke andaz mei kehti h ki i'll pray for u my swthrt i know ki ye job sirf aapke liye hi bani hai.hehehehe hw sweet god bless all these kinds of ppls :)

sach mei life mei umeed hi kafi hai sirf jine ke liye and subah uthete hai mobile mei hum apni gf/bf ke gud moring msges kisses and swt si smiley dekhte hai toh its feel likes ki ye job ab toh meri hi hai isn't it.see ek choti si pyari si umeed hume kitna joshela bana deti hai hena hw sweet it was sach mei kabhi kabhi ek choti si cheezz hume khushi dene ke liye kafi hoti hai and jab hum travel kar rhe hote raste mei dekhte hai ki ek fully professinal boy with a black berry in his hands and properly dressed mobile pe baat karta hua i'll be there in just 10 mints tab tak sambhal lo hum ye dekh ke ye sochte hai ki kash humara tym aisa kab aayega.fir ek dum se interview ki tnsn aa jati hai interview office ke bahar ke bahar pauch ke sochte hai ki kash zayda log na aaye ho or jitne aaye ho sab mere se nalayak ho hehehehe hena...

u know mei toh hamehsa hi ye sochta hu or vaha pe jitne log baithe hote hai na unko dekh ke analyize karta rehta hu ki kaun intellignt lag raha hai kaun nahi kabhi aap bhi kar ke dekhna seriously u feel relaxed and super confident about urself.vaha jitne log aaye hote hai haar 5 mints mei watched dekhte hai or kehte hai kitna time waste karenge yaha aise log already ek job mei hote hai or sirf salary increase nahi hoti toh job change karne ki sochte hai, and kuch ek gals ka group hota hai vo toh vaha pe bhi pehle hair sambhalti hai and mirror mei face dekhti hai and interview mei jane se pehle sabse pehle naraz agar kisi aise cheez pe padh gayi jaise hair style, lipstik, earings, nail polish toh ada dissscusion isme hoga ki ye milega kaha se mujhe bhi chahiye hena and agr koi written test ho raha hoga toh idhar udhar dekhengi and bindas baith ke test dengi inme se kuch gals ho seriously job chahti hongi vo chup chap thodi se nervous mood mei kone mei khade rehti h and kosish karti hai ki hamari looks kharab na ho and sab kuch aacha ho jaye etc etc.u know aise galz ko ek baat ka darr jrur hota ki agar meine kuch galat bol diya toh kya hoga ye soch soch ke ghar se aati hai vo hena....and dusri taraf ek experinced ladki toh aise professionally ready hoke aati hai or hamre samne baithti hai toh humko aisa lagta hai ki ye job toh isko jrur milegi and hum apne se zayda usko dekh ke confident hote hai hena or kya...
and boys hahaha most interesting part kuch toh enter aise hote hai jaise vo yaha pe joining letter lene aaye hai bindas na kisi ka darr na kuch and kuch toh phone mei baat karte hue aate hai or pretend karte hai ki jaise vo time pass karne aaye hai yaha trying to be a dashing dude hehe..
and boys ki baaton ka topic hota hai ki pehle kaha kaam karte the fir koi kahega ki yaha abc co. mei toh fatak se kahenge ki areee is mei toh mera frind hai aise karte karte duniya ki har ek co. mei unki jaan pechan nikal aati hai amazing na and some fresher to itne darre hue and apne parents ke sath aate hai bechare job ka darr kitna ho jata hai na aajkal logo mei....

but in sab mei ek baat comman hai vo hai ki sab ko job sirf paisa kamane ke liye chahiye or shayd isliye bahut logo ko mayusi hath lagti hai.job ke baad jab ghar aate hai to parents ko batane mei darr lagta hai ki job nahi mili fir dant padhti hai and sari umeed tut jati hai jo subha ek pyari se smile se shuru hue thi vo ek na ki failse se tut jai hai or yahi nahi iska asar hum sab ke upar nikalte hai is ek na ki bhadas sab pe nikalte hai koi drink kar ke koi kisi se fite kar ke and bahut saree tarike h sabke apne apne.you know jab hum koi aisa kaam karne baithe hai na jisko karne se hamare andar junoon paida ho ussi kaam ko baar baar karne ka usse hume apni life ka way banna chahiye agar hum aisa karte hai na toh seriously hume money ko pane se zayda kaam ko karne ki khushi hogi or ye khushi humse jude kitne logo ko khush karne ke liye kafi hai hum jante hai.

hum jab kisi ko pyar karte hai toh pyar hume itna pagal kar deta hai ki uski koi limits nahi hoti par aisa kyu hota hai pyar mei pagal kyu ho jata hai insan bcz pyar hum sabko pasnd hai or jo cheez pasnd hoti hai usse pane ke liye hum kuch bhi karte hai and sabse badi baat usme umeed kabhi nahi tutti humesha hum yahi sochte hai ki sab theek hoga and bahut log aise faisle karte hai jo kabhi soche bhi nahi honge hena ye sab kyu kar jate hai hum jabki interview ki sirf ek na hume todhne ke liye kafi hoti vahi dusri taraf ek itna bada faisla hmm strange bt ture fact pyar mei aisa kya hai jisse hum usse hasil karne ka junoon hum ekuch bhi karva jata hai par ek interview mei nahi aisa kyu.i know aap sab ko ye dono baate alag alag lagagengi and bologe ki ye dono bahut alag baatein hai bahut differnce hai dono faislo mei hena but ek aisi cheez hai jo pyar mei hamare sath rehti hai par usse cheez ko hum interview ya humesha aise time pe apne se alag kar dete hai jab hamare liye testing times hota hai vo hai pagalpan madness.pyar mei pagalpan hi toh hai jo hum itna mabut rakhta hai hena, but hum ye pagalpan apne career mei lana bhul jate hai kyuki pehle parents fir relatives fir gf in sab ke iten sapne hamare andar hote hai ki pagalpan ki jagah hi nahi bachti.par agar hum kisi bhi kaam ko ek pagalpan se kare na toh koi bhi hume hara nahi sakta is pagalpan ko apna profession banao fir i'll bet ki jo hum chahte hai vo jrur hoga.and agar ye pagalpan hum kisi ke sath pyar mei dikha sakte hai toh mujhe nahi lagta ki ye pagalpan hum apne career mei bhi la sakenge. par bahut mushkil hai kisi cheez ke liye pagal pan apne andar jagana par its not impossible just do what you want to do it which always gives you confidence and feels like your born to do it make ityour profession thats pagalpan.

bahut umeed hai bahut badi life hai ek umeed khatam ho sakti hai par tut nahi sakti. agar ek umeed khatan ho jaye toh dusri umeed ek nayi subha ke sath jaag jati hai.theek hamari gf ke us smiley ke mesage ki tarah jo hume har interview dene ki subha milta hai interview chahe kaisa bhi ho kahi bhi ho kabhi bhi ho par vo smiley dena nahi bhulti vo pagalpan pan hai jo hamari mumma daily subha hume mandir se bhagwan ka ashirwad deti hai unko umeed hai ki is baar kamyabi jrur milegi ye pagalpan hi toh hai umeedo ka pagalpan jo kabhi nahi tuta par humse kyu tut jata hai.

SHITIJ KE LAZO MEI UMEED KO MAAT TUTNE DO UMEED HAI TOH LIFE MEI WAYS KHUD B KHUD BANTE RAHENGE.BUS JRURAT HAI TOH US PAGALPAN KO JAGANE KI JISSE HUM PYAR KARTE HAI THEEK USSE PAGALPAN KO APNE CAREER MEI LANE KI EK BAAR YE PAGALPAN HAMARE ANDAR PAIDA HO JAYE TOH HUMARA PROFESSION VAHI BAN JAYGA JO HUME KHUSHI DETA HAI TRY IT.........

hmmm to bhulna maat jaise bhi karke ye pagalpan jagao okzz..
take care
god bless u all...
c u in next blog tatata...